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[Acy]

Update.
Wife is still texting and skyping OM.
But we are still in counseling. Progress is being made.
We had a nice Christmas together with our son.
She invited me to go to her relatives Xmas
She said she was sorry she was having a hard time reopening her heart to me.
I want to tell her to quit him or I'm done. But I know that would just push her away.
I feel like a pushover though. I guess I have to wait.
I wish she was stronger. She is very emotional. My LL is physical, so this whole stich is wearing me thin. No physical touch for over a year. :-(
There is a woman who is a great match, wants me, and is fun. So tempting...
But I'm in it to win it. My wife will come around. She loves me, I know it. She just needs time to heal from the pain I have caused her.