Read this article about detaching so you understand when EVERYONE on here will tell you to detach.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017