There is no such thing as neglecting.her right now.because she has chosen to be neglected by you.
I would just be a mature, friendly caring person and a living and devoted son and wait for her to see it. I would not. Sending her messages of reconciliation because that is exactly what they tell you not to do.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017