Very true RT….I don’t think W will ever get to that place. The kids point it out to her from time to time. Like this morning she wanted to video tape the kids coming down the stairs like we do every year and they were already up for a while so they did not want to and thought it was too made up. D14 said, “why? this is fake and phoney”. I asked her to play along and she complied. The kids are happy with all their things, but clearly not feeling like they should. Material things are not what makes a family. They do see that. I went to church with the girls at !2:00noon and when we came back W was gone for the day. They were expecting to see her. Going with them to my sisters’ family for dinner with the girls. They love their aunt. My sister and W were best friends so I imagine W feels some loss there. Her choice. Yep, DBing for me and the girls so we do not become worse with it.
Merry Christmas to you too!
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
