At the moment he does want me back but has serious issues really showing it or living up to the damage he had caused. I can't see us ever being together again because of the pain I went through, not just him leaving me but the way he left, the way he spoke to me and about me while at it. As if leaving wasn't painful enough as is. There's been lots of issues and he would need to be a changed man.. And I mean changed and really sorry and maybe and that is a very huge maybe I would consider it but even then I'm sure I could never put it fully behind me. But that's fine because he's not trying. Today he invited me and the dog over for Christmas dinner. I know he's lonely. First I said I won't go then he mentioned something about no one visiting him for Christmas I felt so bad for him. I mean this guy seriously has no family and I'm thinking why don't you spend it with ow. But given the holiday I decided to keep the harsh comments to myself and told him I might visit after I've been to my family. He's even making a turkey :-/ I just wish it would be easier to move on.. On another note RT hope you enjoy the holidays as well, all the best
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012
