I agree, Kaffe Diem--BTW, always so nice to see you post on my thread.
The conv with my MIL went well too. It seems that I'll be able to see her too when I visit CA, which will be nice. She told me Christmas is "only one day" and will be over tomorrow, and that's what her own mother used to tell her when she got D. When our problems with my H's flirting with other women started, he told me that "he wasn't his dad." So he was thinking about what the dad did. But he ended up repeating the same behavior--A followed by D filing.
