Floyd, wishing you a merry Christmas. I hope you and the children have a lovely time today. I'm sure it's cold and snowy and beautiful where you are.
One thing I'm trying to do (without success a lot of the time, but still trying) is to funnel all the resentment I have towards my H into compassion for him. Maybe this would work for you towards your W. She sounds like she could use a little compassion right now.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page