Oh Honey, what I have learned is it can always get worse..lol! Hasn't reading on here taught you anything :P?
But, we don't have to become worse with it, and that, my friend, is the really cool thing about DB.
You are absolutely right...if you cannot be honest with yourself, you cannot be authentic with others. But, some people never get to that place, Floyd.
Merry Christmas and give the Ds a huge Christmas hug
