I'm feeling resentful that he pretty much had zilch to do with kids' presents. He did drop both S17 off and D15 off at some point today so that they could do their Xmas shopping. That's it though. I remember that he did the same thing last Xmas eve. Maybe I should bring it up before next Xmas eve.
Whats the point of bringing up the fact that he [censored] at being a dad? Are you trying to control how he acts?? Everyone knows it, you do not have to point it out. Let him navigate his own relationship with the children. Remember, the only one you can control is you. Control yourself and have a great relationship with your kids and let him dig his own grave.
Good luck and Merry Christmas
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
