Well ended up waiting for hours,, finally left to try and meet him, he still wasn't at his hotel ( work purposes) by 6 pm. ( Christmas Eve) I got very upset as we still had no contact. Believed he was going to be a no show as it is a 12 he drive to his parents. Had enough, sat the kids down and told them I was done. Turned out my eldest son knew months ago when his father begged him not to say anything. Disgusted me. Phoned the in laws told them briefly what happened, now we are on pur way there without H. Told H I was done, and I was very upset that he expected me and kids to wait for him while he was at the OW on Christmas Eve. Rude and disrespectful to me and the kids. The kids are very upset and angry but back my decision 100%. Told them I could live this way anyone and if thier father was up come back he had to concentrate on our fully. H was pissed that I couldn't wait until he got there! Whatever, if he wants back he has to fix this!
