Hi, Sweet,

I am so sorry you & your D's are going thru this! Your H is a d#@K!

The holidays just height emotions for everyone. It is GOOD your H won't see them for a while. It will give everyone a chance to step back, cool down & think about steps forward.

It seems to be a repeating pattern the way your H is using/abusing your D's & that is unacceptable!

Did you talk to your H about boundaries concerning D's? I think you should strongly consider thinking about postponing visitations for a while until things calm down & D's are ready to see their dad again. Get the court involved if you feel you need to.

Good luck & breathe....you are strong! (((((lots of hugs to you & your d's)))))


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.