It agree the holidays are tough for me for the same reason as yours--H has OW in the wings, & I have nobody (except my kids, which are hugely significant, but not the same).
I agree too that January could be interesting for you (& me). I will be spending the next week reviewing DR & DB to help me "stay in the zone."
Try to have a good day tomorrow! (((HUGS)))
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.