The thing is now after just a couple weeks with OM my wife talks like she is spending the rest of her life with him!

He is moving away from his two kids and to our town. They will have a place together. My daughter will have her own room there so she can stay over.

She says I will meet someone to replace her who will make me happier!

By the way, I haven't been able to find the two books we agreed I should start with. Any ideas ?

Also which books explains that everything they do is to test the limits? She comes across as so sure though, it's driving me crazy! Thus guy is only the second person my wife has been with so she will be blinded for a while of course. Yes, she was a virgin when I met her....I was the only one. Not anymore


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017