Oh she likes candles, but at this point they will be used with OM and thats not cool!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
The thing is now after just a couple weeks with OM my wife talks like she is spending the rest of her life with him!
He is moving away from his two kids and to our town. They will have a place together. My daughter will have her own room there so she can stay over.
She says I will meet someone to replace her who will make me happier!
By the way, I haven't been able to find the two books we agreed I should start with. Any ideas ?
Also which books explains that everything they do is to test the limits? She comes across as so sure though, it's driving me crazy! Thus guy is only the second person my wife has been with so she will be blinded for a while of course. Yes, she was a virgin when I met her....I was the only one. Not anymore
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
But she says she hasn't been able to have any orgasms with him because of meds
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
Merry christmas to you GH31 and to.all my fellow DBrs!
I found attraction is not a choice.in pdf and I am already half way through it. I can already see how I was too nice to keep the attraction alive. When we met when I was 20 I was confident, arrogant, and full of myself. I thought whoever gets me will be.the.luckiest woman in the world. 14 yeas later I am much less that person.
Also I have been sheltering my wife from emotions that women need to feel so that the relationship can stay exciting and the journey more interesting. I tried to keep her emotions at happy all the time when really she needed anger, frustration, jealousy etc.
Do you think I can still apply those concepts? Need to work in posture, eye contact, body language and really get that swagger back. It will also help tremendously with my business I think! And that would help with my stress and I can not only appear to be happy and confident, but actually be those things.
Where do I start?!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
The hot chocolate and peppermint syrup was a hit! She loved it.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
SM34 you asked for my input on what women want or are looking for and I'm just one woman, yes there are similarities but with wide variation. The best thing for you to do is get to know and understand your W. Often we think we know our Ss but really we just see what we want to see.
After the first couple of years of marriage we tend to go on autopilot, on both sides.
Lots of posters have given you good advice keep the focus on you and work on what you can control...you. Find the things that work for you and concentrate on those. Too much advice can be counter-productive.
GH31 has given you some good things to think about. I haven't read the books he suggests but if they help you, great.
Here's an example of where I disagree, smashing a child's toy with a sledge hammer. That to me shows a level of anger and violence that would be unacceptable to me. No matter the circumstance, it is intimidation.
Good luck.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Labug thank you for your input. Yes the sledgehammer might be a but too much, but when I found the gifts my wife had bought with our money, for OM kids I was mad. I was mad and made it very clear that I was not happy and she is lucky I don't throw the toys out. She has fine to see OM now to give him the guftsbandbsoend the night. I told her any gift he.might have bought for outweighed us not welcome in my house. She really doesn't understand why I am so hateful towards him!
She thinks that because it was an EA and she let me know before it was a PA that everything should be gravy between me and OM. It's like she broke up with.net before dating him, like we are in high school. No! Your boyfriend talked my married aw into leaving her husband and family. Since unwound never do that to someone's wife, he is beneath me and always will be. She doesn't understand and thinks I need to get over it because i will need to be around him like at my daughters birthdays etc...
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
wow i slaughtered that while typing on my phone. Here is the laptop version:
Labug thank you for your input. Yes the sledgehammer might be a but too much, but when I found the gifts my wife had bought with our money, for OM kids I was mad. I was mad and made it very clear that I was not happy and she is lucky I don't throw the toys out. She has gone to see OM now to give him the gifts and stay the night. I told her any gift he might have bought for daughter is not welcome in my house. She really doesn't understand why I am so hateful towards him!
She thinks that because it was an EA and she let me know before it was a PA that everything should be gravy between me and OM. It's like she broke up with me before dating him, like we are in high school. No! Your boyfriend talked my married W into leaving her husband and family. Since I would never do that to someone's wife, he is beneath me and always will be. She doesn't understand and thinks I need to get over it because i will need to be around him like at my daughters birthdays etc... To hell with that idea!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
I still have not gotten people's opinion on the following:
Is it possible to have a new relationship that is supposed to be replacing one that is supposedly sex starved (once I week or more I made sure she orgasmed) with a relationship where you don't orgasm at all??
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
