RLA, Wendylon makes some good points. My W is always late for everything. It has driven me nuts over the years and one can take it as passive-aggressive behavior. I am not saying that is your intent, but that is be how it is perceived. 2 of our therapists tried to explain this to my W. She was even late for 1/2 the sessions. But it is a chronic issue with my W that goes on well before me. You and I are in power struggles. Let's you and I be bigger than that. Wendylon, your point about wanting to move on but caught up in S being wrong. I get that all too well, but the other way around in my sitch. RLA and Wendylon, enjoy the Christmas and keep the peace. You are both good people.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
