Some progress after 2+ months of DBing

[Wendylon]

H came upstairs trying to be friendly and said he was tired enough to go straight to bed. I suggested he do that and he's snoring away. I hate his addictive personality. It's alcohol at the moment but it could be anything. I don't think it's actually the alcohol itself. Anyway, I'm pretty sure it's not an OW at the moment.

I'm feeling resentful that he pretty much had zilch to do with kids' presents. He did drop both S17 off and D15 off at some point today so that they could do their Xmas shopping. That's it though. I remember that he did the same thing last Xmas eve. Maybe I should bring it up before next Xmas eve.

I'm sure that tomorrow morning he will ask me if I'm all right (as if I have a problem and have been doing weird things). It's his way of finding out if I'm annoyed with him. The question often sounds innocent and genuine but if I say that I am a bit upset because of ..., he then gets angry at me and says that I'm impossible, etc...