She likes expensive bags, shoes, or gift cards to shop. I know she has wanted hot chocolate to make at home for Christmas. She likes the peppermint stuff. So, I bought Godiva Hot Chocolate powder, and a bottle of Starbucks Peppermint Syrup. I know I should be able to come up with someone better than this but honestly with everything I have been through I cannot figure out what would be perfect to get her. Perhaps because I have forgotten how my W is, dealing with this imposter for 3 weeks.

I also bought her a nice parenting book called Love and Logic that is on the list of bestsellers. That is going to be from my daughter to the W.

Any comments? I thought about jewelery, but too personal at this point. Expensive stuff they tell you not to do because its like a bribe or something. So I was going to Thoughtful. This is what she has talked about for the last few weeks! To make a cup of hot chocolate! Maybe I will even make it for her tomorrow,


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017