Ruby your words here are so true. RLA, this is what we both need to hear. The emotional abuse is crazy...I am living it everyday. Let's try togethr not to react...I know I have a hard time with it and get drawn into it.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.