I think she likes the pursuit. I remember when we started dating, she chased me pretty hard. It wasn't until well after we were married that I really 'gave in' and there wasn't any pursuit after that...
I think you might be overthinking this. Do you think there is something you can DO that is going to snap her out of this?
I can assure you that is not going to happen.
You might want to read the pursuit and distance thread and you can even google the book and find out lots more.
