SA, Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year to you and your family.
I totally agree w/you...please don't allow the mlcers to destroy your holiday season. Christmas is such a magical time, it is a time for family, friends and co-workers to reconnect and enjoy the holiday and it is also a time to create new traditions. SA has provided to you this morning some very wise advice.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
