Almost 3 hours later H is back asleep still in our room. I saw in his face and actions, as he only came out once, that he is very deep into a depression. He hasn't eaten, bathed, or talked to anyone in over 24 hrs.
Do I go in my room, sleep next to him? I don't want to make him feel like I am invading him. Sometimes he gets up when I do go in and then angrily walks around. I don't want to tip toe around him but it seems easier to just let the sleeping bears lie.
THis is were I feel I need to be the better, knowing person and give him his space. My S21 says kick is a$$ out, but I feel it's a battle not worth fighting. I will sleep elsewhere in the house, and rise above any reason to create issues.
It's not like I have to go sleep in the garage now! Any other suggestions how this would be handled?
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
