I think I am afraid he won't show. Not sure when I would tell them. Don't want to do it over the holidays. When together as a family, we are like nothing has happened, loving, etc as we always have. But the kids know I am not happy. He said as recently as three weeks ago, we were talking about moving stateside and buying real estate. He talks to the kids like that is still the plan . But I can't have this woman in my life knowing what she wants and how they feel about each other. Sooo confused