Hey, neighbour... and I mean that almost literally.

Although I do not know anyone about my age with a mom who is very sick and two kids... well, just saying, if you are south of the lakes and east of Portage, we're pretty darned close enough to be neighbours. smile

Anyhow, I just wanted to chime in quick. You've got a lot of good support and Accuray is great ol'timer. I've read your first post here and just wanted to let you know, I feel your pain.

My W was an absent spouse for most of our M, although she has a different story to tell. That said, it is really good you are taking a solid lead on this and working on yourself and the M, that will help bring things back around.

I have to read the rest of your posts and will make comments, later.