Hey subguy...keeping you and your family in my thoughts and sending out positive energy for you.

I like to say thank you, for stuff that I would have taken for granted before. Like today, H put my skis in my car. I made sure to thank him for doing it and say it was very nice. He is not there yet lol. He still looks at me suspiciously when I do things like give him a coffee to go :P
It's the consistency in behaviour, I think, that will tell.