Thanks turtlegirl. How did you find out your husband was having an EA? I wonder about mine. He is always looking at his phone and guards it closely. I try not to worry about it because I have no proof. He is always at the house except when he leaved at 9 each bight.
I know what you mean by the new abnormal norlmacy. I just had my birthday this week H made a very nice Italian dinner. Then he gave me my present which was a basket of Italian food. After 17 years I just thought - how impersonal. At least he gave me something and turn told me he has something better for Christmas. I thanked him for the gift.
So he went to BJs to buy some food for the weekend. He came home with a new running jacket for me. I thought that was super sweet. Why does he have to make it so confusing. With the kids today- one minute he is super nice and then the next he was yelling at them for no reason.
Anyway; he is gone for the night. Tomorrow we are supposed to go to his place with the neighbors to see water skiing Santa. Sometimes I think, I can keep doing this because we are still doing things as a family. Othertimes, I think I cant keep up the pretence any longer.
Me 38 H 39 M13 T18 S6 S9 Bomb Drop 11/11 Moved Out 7/12 Still have hope. No OW that I know of..
