Subguy, imagine yourself already doing your 180's, and see how you feel. The power of your imagination is incredible.
How do items 5-6 relate to your M? Also, think of specific actions to execute your 180's.
I'm having a hard time too...It's the holidays. Hope you enjoy the time with your son tonight.
Well lol I feel asleep on him. Ooppss my bad, he said the movie wasn't that good so I did not miss much. I really tried staying awake.
#5 definitely relates to my marriage, I think I was inattentive to a lot of things going on around me. Point me in the direction I need to go and then I'll be the life of the party. Inattentive to my surroundings, maybe I could have seen the warning signs and reacted quicker, maybe not. #6 Before she dropped the bomb I would have NEVER went to see a counselor. That would have been for whimps and other such drivel. So far the money I spend on the counselor has been the best money I have ever spent. My pride has been pretty much destroyed at this point. I hope it never comes back in the same arrogant way. I have been reaching out to friends and so far a few have really helped me. I owe them my sanity and possibly even more. This one is more for me than anything. So far my wife refuses to see a "shrink", I hope she finds the peace she is looking for.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
