Wow! Some interesteing similarities in our sitchs. My H has moved out about 7 weeks ago. He too comes to the house every day and spends time w our 3 boys. He also comes and hangs out every weekend about noon to dinnertime.

Our boys are getting used to this...but it is very difficult as the LBS to live through. Abnormal normalcy, I call it.

(One MAJOR diff. is my H is having an EA!)

I don't think you "slipped up" by telling your H you can't live like this forever, b/c it's true! He needs a bit of a reality check.

What do YOU want ultimately? ARe you willing to be patient (not knowing the end results)? MLCers are the hardest in that we will never know how LONG this journey will be & we have to GAL in the meantime & decide where WE want to be.

GOod luck!

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.