I have a question. Need an answer if possible. We have not told the kids about what has been going on with his affair with the other woman. My DB coach as well as my AR coach said I shouldn't . I am now going to use the LRT and start detaching myself, do I tell the kids we are separating? I hate to deceive them as I have been doing to cover for his sorry butt, but I also do not want to hurt them if we are able to work things out. We don't see much of each other anyways, but think maybe it is time the kids learned the truth about thier dad and what he has been doing. Any advice?