Reasonable... is it reasonable to leave because your W isn't ready at 11 am on the dot, because she spent the morning doing things for the family like making dinner and folding laundry?
Who's priorities were those and could they have waited? I think I've already made my point on this.
You can't be at this point in your M and expect cooperation. It's just not going to happen. Pick your battles. If I'm you, I'm never going to complain or fight about small stuff...I'm going to save all my "digs" for things that are going to make H think.
I think detaching is good, I think GAL is good, I think deciding to let H figure his own stuff out is good. But I think poking the beehive is polar opposite of these things.
