Reasonable... is it reasonable to leave because your W isn't ready at 11 am on the dot, because she spent the morning doing things for the family like making dinner and folding laundry? I can't see how that would be reasonable in anyone's book. Even H knows it's not reasonable, and I have no idea why he decided to go down that path today. It's not like 5 minutes was going to make any difference. AND, I didn't say this, but H could have helped me fold the clothes instead of standing there insulting me.

I definitely am getting better at not engaging, as angry as he makes me... Now who's pursuing and who's distancing? The more he tangles with me the more I just want out.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page