I get frustrated bc he refuses to be reasonable...
Who's definition of reasonable are you using? I get it, but remember his side of things.
Originally Posted By: RegretfulLA
He said "Most W's who cheat on their H's have some sort of career to fall back on but not you" and some other thing insinuating that I was some sort of loser, and I think I said, "you're right."
Maybe instead of trying to fight the fight here, you try to validate as best you can and leave the rest be.
I know my first reaction here is to engage, to attack and say "hey, I only cheated cause you've been a sh!tty husband" but that's shallow and isn't productive. Avoid it....it doesn't help anyone.
