My wife wants to separate

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GH31, I have ready most of your posts and those of David and Jack_three_beans and while they are full if tips and pointers, I cannot help but feel all 3 stories are similar in one way and different to mine. In all 3 sitch's it seems your wives had expressed willingness to work on M from quite early on. My wife is very strong willed and is not the indecisive type. I am no were near done fighting, but my sitch ultimately needs the reality stick to hit my W hard. She is in a fantasy that cannot work out, but her lack of life experience is blinding her. I have things I need to improve of.course but I feel strongly that I in order for her to.come around she is going to need a big dose of reality. Any thoughts or opinions on this contrast of.sitch?