It's hard to hear, but you didn't expect anything different at this point did you? Hell, my W and I are having the best time of our entire M and she still hasn't called off the D. I wouldn't expect yours to either since you look like you are at least 6 months behind me (maybe longer).
Focus on you...GAL, DB, etc. She'll notice, and she'll be watching for slip ups, evidence to back up her decision, etc. Over time, she'll start to believe in your changes, and then, she'll start questioning her decisions.
Hang in there...this is a long road. I would suggest you continue to do things that will delay D so that W has more time to see your changes, and more time to consider her decision.
