My wife wants to separate

[labug]

Thanks SM, I get that. But being angry at your W takes the focus off you and why she decided to seek out OM.

Your 180s sound good but you can't quickly do any of this. Just as it took time to get to this place, it will take time to get out of it. The best thing you can do is be polite, friendly, a great Dad and continue your 180s. But don't be continually looking to see if W noticed. Be a better man because YOU want to be a better man.

Read up on ultimatums if that's what you're thinking of doing. I'm neither for not against but just be sure you know the consequences.

There's a reason why GALing in bars alone is not the best choice. Can you think why that is? And yes it's great to have someone of the opposite sex chat us up and maybe even touch us but don't you think those are the feelings that got you in this predicament?