Finally approaching the starting line!

[labug]

eyesopen, I brought this to your thread so as not to threadjack sm34.

So we stand because we believe that our marriages can be great. Our famalies can be made whole again, and we can live the fulfilling life with that special person that we thought we were going to.

I understand this, as you can see I've been at this for a while.

But I have compassion for my H, I have love for my H, and I have compassion for myself. I think if I got to the place where my predominate belief was that my S was a [b]Cheating, parasitic, adulterous...(who) do not respond to appeals or "reason".[b] (not a quote from eyesopen)I would be done. And there's no affair in my sitch which changes my viewpoint.

And maybe this was just a vent from that poster but it didn't read that way.

To carry around that level of anger on a daily basis is destructive.