At 9:30am my SIL called me to ask me something. She said she was at MIL house since last night helping her clean for her christmas party today, I said "please tell me H is not on his way the kids are not ready?" she said "I dunno where H is he never came home last night" I just thought "whatever".
D10 was up and eating breakfast, S13 was still sleeping so I woke him to get up and shower because H was coming to pick them up. S13 got up said he didn't feel good so I felt his head and he was burning up. So I called H surprise surprise...no answer, so I text him and said "tried to call you, S13 is sick w/fever, D10 will be ready for you when you get here.
About 10 mins later he called and said I just left I'llbe there soon, he said he was in the shower when I called earlier...so I said Hmm SIL just told me you never came home last night...I swear I heard crickets....he said nothing and I didn't ask would have been alie anyway.
After we hung up he called D10 phone and told her to come out to the car when he got there, she said can you come help me I have alot of stuff, hesaid take everything out to the driveway and I'll put it in the car. I told her no he'll come get it.
He COULD NOT look at me when he came in, he was dressed like he was 18 in things he'd never have worn before. They left I told D10 I'd see her monday and I loved her. He called at 4:30 and said " I'm bringing D10 home I have so much to do I have to go shopping" He's such an a$$hole, I don't get it at all and I don't think I ever will. Today was not a good day very emotional and I miss my husband so much but this new guy I think I hate him. Is this normal?
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending