so, will think about the goals and post later to be more clear.
Now, about everything happens for a reason, maybe not a reason per se, but when stuff happens, we get to learn, if we are lucky enough to understand that.
So, the reason is there is a lesson in everything and I am finding out that focusing more on the good rather than the negative gives me back good x 10. Or maybe it is because now I am not letting the negatives rule my world that I see so much more possibility and see things that happen as good coming back around rather than happenstance or chance.
So when I say that everything happens for a reason, it is not through some grand design that we are pre ordained to follow a path, but only that we get to learn from our triumphs and learn from our mistakes.
This is not a clarity I have achieved at all, and I struggle every day (like some days I may, possibly, want to key H's car and stab his tires) I am not by any stretch perfect Karma Woman (my super power...)but I am finding myself happier, more balanced and less inclined to obsess these days.
And I know as soon as I say this, the hamsters will be back lol! But this time, I am ready
