Let me ask this Is it wrong to feel ok or good that your WAW is having a hard time and even mad (misdirected at me but i know the truth). I just think it is wrong to feel good about it. But I do, Not that i want bad things for her at all.
Yes, I think it's wrong to feel good that they are feeling pain.
But I also think it is ok to feel some validation that you and your marriage were not necessarily a failure after all. The grass wasn't greener on the other side of the fence, so to speak. Since you don't wish any hard times on her, I think this is more where you are.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
