Trying really hard to be Thankful today...

[Sweetbriar]

Whoops...I wasnt finished and I accidentely submitted the last post...

So, Here I am ..angry and sad all at the same time. Looks like H wont see the kids until after his trip in Jan and this is how they ended things? Awful..and both Ds still are feeling sad tonight.

I really just dont get how he cannot see what he has caused in my kids and in our family. I know that his family is probably talking with him and telling him how "bad" my kids are and that Im "brain washing them" but they will never look at H and realize that he has really done a number on us.

I just think that I need to cease visitation right now between them until he can get a grip on how to better support them through this. He is emotionally abusing D14 and now got verbal tonight. Funny, this is how he was with me when he first left...

Sadly, I just dont think that he even realizes that this behavior and pain that they are displaying is directly related to what they have endured these past months. He wants to write this off as normal?? In fact, when she was having the anxiety attack tonight he kept telling her that it must be low blood sugar...are you kidding me? Keep on blaming anything....instead of looking at yourself...

Im sad that this night turned out the way it did. I must admit that I knew that the kids werent thrilled about going, but I NEVER thought it would turn out like this..

What happened to my loving, adoring H who put his kids before everything?