It is interesting about the postponement, although I can't let that affect me one way or the other.

I am also good with having my children every second that I can, I woudn't trade that time for anything. I would be lying if having them that much didn't serve two purposes. One being that that is what I want. I didn't choose to have children to not be part of their lives. The other is something I have come across in my reading since BD. That being, it is a attractive quality for a man to be that involved and passionate about his children. Not sure if it is true or not. No matter what I know they need me to be their rock.

Go for the rock climbing, it has done wonders for my self esteem and confidence. Not to mention it really gets the blood flowing.

Wishing you the best!


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on