Just caught up on your thread. Seems like you are doing a great job DBing! And, there are definitely some good baby steps. Focus on these.
Interesting your W postponed the D until...? Taxes....maybe/maybe not.
It is hard to GAL when you have kids & are with them most of the time you have to GAL. I have my boys 6-7 nights a week (I'm good w this for now), so I understand that GALing can be tough.
I am choosing to GAL w my kids though. I look at opportunities that I want for my kids to experience & remember w happy thoughts.
Even though what we are going through is awful, it is your kids only childhood...and time flies soooo very quickly. I feel like if R doesn't work out w my H, then I am lucky to have this time to focus MORE on my kids.
Maybe I'll look into rock climbing, though.............
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.