Thanks again! My H kept telling me he is depressed but the same time, he makes "happy life promises" with OW. I feel like he just wants to use the ashamed excuse to get away from what he is doing. He has no shame, it seems to me, really....
I feel stupid that I somehow "gave" more control to him, he cheated, but I kept apologizing for my part, I feel like now he doesn't really feel guilty about it anymore, and thinks it is all my fault.
I really need to get my own place soon. I realized that I can't fake it with his parents much. I do not know what they say to him, they are seeing him for christmas, and I am not. I showed disappointment and said to in laws that my parents are a bit disappointed that H wouldn't even come and say hi to them when they are here. I probably shouldn't have said that because now, they probably would tell H I said so. I just feel like there is no right way to do things Also, found out today that H is moving in with the OW till she is done with her school. And he was telling me to " focus on career".
So, I really can relate how you felt when you caught him in a lie...... Are they serious? Their lies are not even hard to figure out and they did it anyway to us. It hurt so bad I know!!! I had that feeling before too...And now I can't....I just feel like I can't talk to anyone about this, because apparently it doesn't make sense to most people I know.. How are you today? I hope you feel better.
Also, found out today that H is moving in with the OW till she is done with her school. And he was telling me to " focus on career".