I have thought about what makes them attracted to eachother.. I came up with two different scenarios... In my case with my ex, he is trying to fix himself so he has picked up someone like him... Controlling, manipulative, very outspoken and hurtfull OR, someone totally opposite of me since in his mind, he wasn' t happy with me, why would he pick up another me... The funny thing is i see him trying to change her into me and he is treated like he treated me ...lol They are [censored] up and trying to fix eachother... My ex still reflect his fights with her onto me... They are both very unhappy, on and off.. They are addicted to their fantasy...