My wife wants to separate

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I guess what I am saying, or at least what I believe in, is the sanctity of marriage, the vows I gave, and the bond that was strengthened when we had children.

I agree if when anyone got married, if their spouse could have been described in that way, why would anyone want to stay with them.

Based on what I have read on this forum, there doesn't seem to be many serial cheaters or parasites. Just two people who didn't have the right tools and knowledge to keep their marriages thriving. Now one of them is in a fog of sorts. Be it a MLC, affair, or a hardened heart.

So we stand because we believe that our marriages can be great. Our famalies can be made whole again, and we can live the fulfilling life with that special person that we thought we were going to.

At least that is why I am here, that is what I believe in.