So everything was good then wife shows up from shopping this morning and says 'I have your Christmas present in the car. I know we are separating and moving forward but I wanted you to have this".
In the car was a $700 home theater sub woofer even though we agreed that we would only spend $100 or so on one present each.
I was stunned and upset and told her that I didn't feel comfortable accepting it.
I said it was a fantastic gift but under the circumstances it didn't seem like a good idea.
She has now been quiet with me for the rest of the day!
Maybe I should have just accepted it but it felt like a bribe or a payoff.
