I asked because I have not talked about it with my w. I don't think we are ready for that talk yet. So far she has not turned into a alien either.

In the end you can only express your concerns. As we all know, we can only control ourselves.

What [censored] is this is hard enough on kids to begin with, then they get to see their mom or dad jump into another R as if their marriage meant nothing. All we can do is try to explain it to them the best we can.

I had a interesting text convo with my mom last night. She asked if there was anything my w could do to shatter my hopes. I told her that hope comes from within me and me only. Also that I may have to endure things that she would not want me to, and that it may take a long time. I told her that I will do this so that if it does not work out, someday when my children can understand, I can look them in the eye and honestly tell them I did everything I could to keep my family together.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on