How do I balance GAL and detaching with being available? I know one of my wife's primary complaints with me in the marriage has been my depression, emotional unavailability and distance. This is where I get really insecure about divorce busting because I want her to see that I'm engaged and making necessary changes, but of course I don't want to come off needy or desperate...
M: 28 W: 29 D5 T: 7 M: 6 EA + ILYBNILWY: 11/2012 W leaves: 01/04/2013
