Reposting because of moderation:

How do I balance GAL and detaching with being available? I know one of my wife's primary complaints with me in the marriage has been my depression, emotional unavailability and distance. This is where I get really insecure about divorce busting because I want her to see that I'm engaged and making necessary changes, but of course I don't want to come off needy or desperate...


M: 28
W: 29
D5
T: 7
M: 6
EA + ILYBNILWY: 11/2012
W leaves: 01/04/2013