We've been separated and moved out of place of business for about 2 months. At first she was still hugging me and kissing me on the cheek, telling me she loves me like "Ok, well, I love you and I"ll see you tonight, ok?" That is NOT habitual for her. Her habit of saying I love you is "Ok, love you bye"
About 3 weeks ago I told her I thought we were seeing progrss and she confirmed she's happy without me. I asked her "Why the hugs and etc then?" She said "I'm just trying to be nice" I told her "If you're not going to be sincere about it, DO NOT DO IT! That's stringing me along and not fair and I'm not ok with it"
Since then, nothing. Howver last night after an attempt to catcha movie on time, we had dinner at McD's and let D3 play in playplace, I took her home where she played with my hand twice and I grabbed her hand. She then squeezed. Took me into her bro's place (where she's staying) and showed me her room and chatted a bit. She grabbed my arm and told me she had a great time.
Mixed signals huh? lol. So yeah, at least yours is showing some signs of regret or sadness. Mine hasn't.
I dont' know if your wife is showing guilt, seems she was sad... sad isn't guilt. To me, guilt would be like a quick "i'm sorry, but let me know if there's something I can do" i dont' know, I kinda suck on this part lol. But I dont' know. Guess give it some time bub and see how it goes. Just remember to be on guard. Don't get sucked into the moment iwth things that melt you up a bit.
M: 36/W: 28 T 11yrs / M 7yrs /1x 3yo D Sept: W Cheated w/ teen, BDrop. W Beast. Hated me. Oct: 18 (M license)W Asked for D Oct: 31 (Anniverary)W Paid Lawyer Nov1st: Both moved.
