Today atSIL bar I dropped in to say hi to two employees Merry Xmas etc.
One woman asked where H was Xmas eve and I said "back in the city probably spending it with his G F"
They didn't know. I asked them not to say anything esp. Since D doesn't know, but said I thought that she may have been here before because H told me that his S asked if GF could come and work because she was short staffed.
Well, they were really shocked at SILs balls lol! Me too, but that was a previous post and I have since let it go, but am much warier for it.
My question is that we are very slowly rebuilding trust and if he does not hear it from me the gossip mill will bring it back with what added flavours one does not know. We already had a miscommunication at beginning of week ( all my fault of course?..no sarcasm here) and I just apologized and left it at my poor communication skills.
So, do I tell now or let it be? Trust me, if these two employees know, everyone knows
