No, it is not a good sign because they build resentment towards you through their guilt. You will be to blame in her mind for her being the bad guy and will take it out on you viciously. I just went through that 30 minutes ago when she ranted that her parents have been on her about this mess. also the kids are mad at her. Then I tried to speak with her rationally about her lack of deposits to the joint account for expenses and we are in debt. Says she has no more and can't even afford snow tires. Yet she drops a ton on nails, make-up, spas etc etc. Apparently this is my fault. Then she took the dog for only 10 minute walk...he needs a lot more than that as he is a hunting dog yet she wants the kids and te dog. It was the first time she walked him in 2 weeks. This too is my fault apparently. So no, her guilt of being the bad guy will only raise her tension and resentment towards you.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
